[2020-10-19]成熟爱情的定义是什么？

Unknown works at Cognizant (2020-present)
Not sure if this is called mature love.
Based on a true story.
They got into relationship, when they were 20yrs old and working in same company. She was scared to get committed because of guys she saw around her. She couldn't stop herself from saying yes, because of his charm. But, she asked him to convince his parents in next 6 months. He knows it was too early to convince his parents. He just completed his engineering and got a job. He is neither settled in career nor at the age to get married to talk to his parents. Still, he wants her at any cost, so he promised her that he will bring his parents to talk to her parents.
She left the company and started working in other company. No Phones were allowed inside. She was very pretty looking. They were many guys who tried to get her. Proposed her. Wanted to get into serious relationship with her. She denied every guy for sake of him.

不知道这算不算成熟的爱情。基于一个真实的故事。
他们在20岁的时候开始交往，当时他们在同一家公司工作。她看到周围的男人，所以她害怕做出承诺。因为他的魅力，她情不自禁地答应了。但是，她要求他在接下来的6个月里说服他的父母。他知道现在说服他的父母还为时过早。他刚刚完成工程学，找到了一份工作。他既没有稳定的事业，也没有到结婚的年龄，不能和父母交谈。尽管如此，他还是不惜一切代价想要她，所以他向她保证，他会带他的父母去和她的父母谈谈。
她离开了那家公司，开始在其他公司工作。禁止携带手机进入。她长得很漂亮。有许多人想要得到她。向她求婚。想和她认真谈恋爱。为了他，她拒绝了所有的男人。

He trusted her, she trusted him. There were days where they couldn't talk to each other for almost a week. Still they were madly in love. Finally, he gathered all his courage and spoke to his parents. He convinced them too. She was surprised. He brought his parents to her home. Her parents were invited to his house. Her parents were impressed by their family. Officially everything was settled. But, parents asked them to wait for few years as they're too young to get married.
She asked him to get promotions before they get married. He worked hard for his promotions. He couldn't talk to her for weeks. She understood and didn't disturb him at all. He got 3 promotions in one n half year. She distributed sweets in her office after she heard the good news of his promotion.

他信任她，她也信任他。有几天他们几乎有一个星期不能和对方说话。他们仍然疯狂地相爱着。最后，他鼓足勇气和父母谈了话。他也说服了他们。她很惊讶。他把父母带到她家。她的父母被邀请去他家。她的父母对他们的家庭印象深刻。一切都正式解决了。但是，父母要求他们再等几年，因为他们还太年轻，不能结婚。
她要求他在结婚前晋升。他为了晋升而努力工作。他好几个星期都不能和她说话。她明白他的意思，一点也不打扰他。他在一年半的时间里升了三次职。听到他升职的好消息后，她在办公室里分发糖果。

They got engaged and married. He cheated on her once, but, he could give her an exact reason for it. She didn't give up on him. She understood his situation. Stood by him.
He fell for her again, because of her understanding and love towards him. He did everything to make up their relationship better. She tried her best to come out that worst phase of her life. She struggled hard to over come that betrayel. They stood strong again.
He did everything to make her happy. She understood his efforts and excused him for one mistake he did. She said, ”Afterall he is a human, mistakes do happen. He had an option to leave me at every stage. But, he chose to be with me forever. So it's ok to excuse him once.’’
She had an option to leave him for what he did. But, she chose to be with him and she loves him more now. He loves her so much than before.

他们订婚并结婚了。他曾经对她不忠过一次，但是他可以给她一个确切的理由。她没有放弃他。她理解他的处境。站在他身边。
他又爱上了她，因为她对他的理解和爱。他尽一切努力使他们的关系更好。她尽了最大的努力来走出她生命中最糟糕的阶段。她努力克服那次不忠。他们再次坚强地挺了起来。
他尽一切努力让她开心。她理解他的努力，原谅他犯的一个错误。她说：“毕竟他是人，也是会发生错误。他在每个阶段都可以选择离开我。但是，他选择了永远和我在一起。所以，原谅他一次也没关系。”
她可以选择因为他的所作所为而离开他。但是，她选择了和他在一起，现在她更爱他了。他比以前更爱她了。

Anonymous
My uncle (dad's brother) and aunt had a typical arranged marriage 13 years ago. Both of them are very shy and reserved and didn't even communicate with each other properly for first few years after their marriage. I have never seen them indulge in any kind of PDA. My parents on the other hand had a love marriage 22 years ago. They believe in showering love on each other in public. My parents are still very much in love with each other. I always believed that love is what my parents had and thought that my uncle and aunt had a strained relationship.
The other day I sitting on the dining table doing nothing. My mom and aunt were in the kitchen busy preparing dinner. My mom smelled gas (LPG). Probably there was some leakage in the gas cylinder. My aunt turned off the gas and called my uncle to the kitchen. My mom left the kitchen for some other work she had. My uncle tried to fix the nozzle of the cylinder.

13年前，我的叔叔和婶婶有一段典型的包办婚姻。他们都非常害羞和内向，甚至在结婚后的头几年里都没有正确地与对方沟通。我从来没有见过他们沉迷于任何形式的公众示爱。另一方面，我的父母在22年前有一段爱情婚姻。他们相信在公共场合应该向对方表达爱意。我的父母仍然深爱着对方。我一直相信我父母所拥有的就是爱，并认为我的叔叔和婶婶的关系很紧张。
有一天，我坐在餐桌上什么也不做。我妈妈和婶婶在厨房忙着准备晚餐。我妈妈闻到了煤气味。可能是气罐漏气了。我婶婶关掉煤气，把我叔叔叫到厨房。我妈妈离开厨房去忙别的事了。我叔叔努力修理气罐的喷嘴。

I was observing both of them without being obvious. After my uncle was done, my aunt starting moving the cylinder. My uncle stopped her and asked her to move aside as he had to light the stove and check if there was still any leekage. My aunt was not moving. My uncle was adamant. He wouldn't light the stove unless she had moved away so that in case of a minor accident she doesn't get hurt.
According to me mature love is not just about kissing or hugging each other in front of everyone. There is nothing wrong with PDA. I adore the relationship my parents have but I being an introvert person would like to have a relationship like my uncle and aunt.

我观察着他们两个，但并不明显。当我的叔叔修理完后，我的婶婶开始移动气罐。我叔叔拦住了她，让她靠边站，因为他必须点燃炉子，看看是否还有泄漏。婶婶一动不动。我叔叔很固执。他没有点燃炉子，除非她走开，这样即使发生了小事故，她也不会受伤。
在我看来，成熟的爱情不仅仅是在所有人面前亲吻或拥抱对方。公众示爱没什么问题。我很喜欢我父母之间的关系，但是我是一个内向的人，我希望拥有一种像我的叔叔和婶婶那样的关系。